You are here

The Less People Know About Us: A Mystery of Betrayal, Family Secrets, and Stolen Identity (Hardcover)

Staff Pick Badge
The Less People Know About Us: A Mystery of Betrayal, Family Secrets, and Stolen Identity Cover Image
$27.00
On Our Shelves Now
8 on hand, as of Nov 11 4:40am
(TRUE CRIME)

Staff Reviews


Since 'Hillbilly Elegy," more publishers have discovered that readers are interested in the lives and struggles of the rural working class.  This memoir about growing up in small town Indiana has a big twist: someone committed identity theft against the author's parents and herself when she was a young girl. The author's mother, the self-appointed financial manager for the family, took charge of the investigation and the accounts, while her father worked two full-time jobs as a farmer and a grocery store manager to stay ahead of the past due notices. The culprit and the  full extent of the crime is not revealed for another 25 years, and the repercussions continue to this day. It's a true crime tale with an ending that both satisfies, and makes you mull over how much we really know about anyone, even family members. A classic portrait of marital dysfunction and child neglect, that you will not be able to forget.

 

— From Carla's Picks

Description


In this powerful true crime memoir, an award-winning identity theft expert tells the shocking story of the duplicity and betrayal that inspired her career and nearly destroyed her family.

Axton Betz-Hamilton grew up in small-town Indiana in the early '90s. When she was 11 years old, her parents both had their identities stolen. Their credit ratings were ruined, and they were constantly fighting over money. This was before the age of the Internet, when identity theft became more commonplace, so authorities and banks were clueless and reluctant to help Axton's parents.

Axton's family changed all of their personal information and moved to different addresses, but the identity thief followed them wherever they went. Convinced that the thief had to be someone they knew, Axton and her parents completely cut off the outside world, isolating themselves from friends and family. Axton learned not to let anyone into the house without explicit permission, and once went as far as chasing a plumber off their property with a knife.

As a result, Axton spent her formative years crippled by anxiety, quarantined behind the closed curtains in her childhood home. She began starving herself at a young age in an effort to blend in--her appearance could be nothing short of perfect or she would be scolded by her mother, who had become paranoid and consumed by how others perceived the family.

Years later, her parents' marriage still shaken from the theft, Axton discovered that she, too, had fallen prey to the identity thief, but by the time she realized, she was already thousands of dollars in debt and her credit was ruined.

The Less People Know About Us is Axton's attempt to untangle an intricate web of lies, and to understand why and how a loved one could have inflicted such pain. Axton will present a candid, shocking, and redemptive story and reveal her courageous effort to grapple with someone close that broke the unwritten rules of love, protection, and family.

About the Author


Axton Betz-Hamilton is an expert in identity theft, having personal experience that she's now turned into a career. After discovering her own mother had stolen hers and her father's identities for years, Axton made understanding the nuances of identity theft her life's work. She frequently speaks on the topic at a wide range of conferences and has won multiple awards for her research, teaching, and service.

Axton has a Master's degree in Consumer Sciences and Retailing and a PhD in Human Development and Family Studies, focusing on child identity theft and elder financial exploitation perpetrated by family members. She teaches at South Dakota State University.

Praise For…


"Reads like a grim folk tale...intimate and engrossing."—The New York Times


"The air of menace is palpable...A deeply compelling story of a crime that
hit close to home."—NPR


"The tension of a thriller...[and] jaw dropping revelations. Astonishing and disturbing, this emotionally resonant book is perfect for true crime fans."—Publishers Weekly (starred review)


"This
memoir has all the suspense and twists of a thriller; even as readers begin to
suspect the truth, it still shocks...highly recommended."—Booklist

"Betz-Hamilton expertly blends true crime and memoir in this tale of family, lies, and identity...a brave, candid examination of her painful past [and] a poignant and fascinating exploration of identity theft."
Library Journal


"'Identity
theft' sounds like something that happens far, far away and only to other
people...certainly not within a seemingly picture-perfect family in the
rural U.S. In a gut-wrenching portrayal of victimization starting at age 11,
Axton Betz-Hamilton shows that's simply not true. The stunning revelations will
keep you looking over your shoulder for a long time and even more troubling...at
the ones you think you know the best!"—Nancy Grace, legal commentator, broadcast journalist, and New York Times bestselling author of The Eleventh Victim


"Axton Betz-Hamilton's story is remarkable. One of the primary
challenges for those of us advocating for more rights and resources for
identity theft victims is their reluctance to share their experience. Betz-Hamilton writes with candor and grace about both her
relationship with her mother/perpetrator, and the long term effect
victimization has had on her life."—Eva Casey Velasquez, president/CEO of Identity Theft Resource Center

"A brave, rueful
memoir of fear and heartbreak in rural America. Axton Betz-Hamilton mines the
most essential of life's questions: can we ever really know the people we love?
The Less People Know About Us is an unflinching portrait of grit and
determination in the wake of a fractured childhood and complicated grief."Carolyn Murnick, author of The Hot One
Product Details
ISBN: 9781538730287
ISBN-10: 1538730286
Publisher: Grand Central Publishing
Publication Date: October 15th, 2019
Pages: 320